+ 女强人vs小女人 +
Just couple hrs ago i had a little conversation wif a fren and while we chat we came across this topic. Which category do men prefer? 女强人or小女人? On the whole we agreed that generally men do prefer 小女人 more.
女强人: I am not referring to career women, but independent women. They dont really have to depend on men to do their job. Oftenly appear to be strong, confident, know it all kind of woman.
小女人: Not referring to size here. They tend to be softer, innocent, seeking for protection, blur-blur type of women.
My male frens often felt threaten when i am able to carry heavy stuff, change light bulb, settle stuff on my own. They treat me like a guy for that matter. I was brought up in an environment that i have to do things on my own. At very young age, i have go to school on my own while my classmates were still being fetched by their parents. I always have to find my own directions, settle household stuff while my mum is doing her business.
My fren she recently had an encounter which goes like this. 2 ladies and 1 man, 3 of them bought some durians. The 2 ladies was hoping for the man to open the durians, then the man confess that he cant open durians. Thus my fren offer to open them but uses that man's strength to split open it. The other lady was just sitting down waiting to eat durians. To my fren's up most suprise was the man was patiently teaching that lady who was sitting and waiting, how to open the durian.
Do we ladies, have to appear to be weak to gain love and care from man? It seems that those ladies that appear 'wanting to be protected' tend to get man to fall into the trap. *grins* Probably in that sense it boost man's ego and pride. I dont know.
Man out there, say something.